I'd Like You to Meet Rachel

It's been a very long time since I've sat down to transfer my thoughts into some sort of writing. I think I need to make it a little more simple for myself since I'd rather be sitting in my studio creating something out of silver than typing on a computer. Maybe you bloggers could give me a few helpful hints about how to use the K.I.S.S. theory as it relates to simple blogging. Feel free to leave me some helpful hints in your comments.

Yesterday I finally finished a ring that I've been working on for three weeks. I got to the point of polishing and buffing - right before letting it take a dip in the smelly liver of sulfur bath. Then "IT" happened. I used a Tripoli compound on the buffing wheel. Tripoli compound takes more scratches off the surface than the Rouge compound with which I am most comfortable. Unfortunately, Tripoli took too much off in one place and I had to stop to fix it. I had taken such great pains with this ring during the entire soldering process, that I couldn't believe "IT" happened as I was nearing the end.

Of course, I started chastising myself for this really STUPID act. (you must be able to relate) I wanted to throw it through a window, sit down and cry. My instructor was wonderful and calm. She coached me through the "fix" and told me to be grateful that it could be fixed as she has many projects that had to be discarded into the "unfixable" bucket on her studio shelf. I took a deep breath and continued to see the beauty in this project.

It may have taken me three attempts to finally get it the way I wanted - that crazy buffing machine can be quite dangerous - and then it came time to set the stone. What? It doesn't sit right? It's tilted? How did "IT" happen? When I made the setting, it fit perfectly. And then that angel instructor of mine came over, suggested a slight adjustment, and it fit perfectly again!

Now it was time for me to bend the tabs that were designed to hold the stone in place. The tabs were slightly smaller than the end of the bezel setting tool, so I was frantically trying to find another tool that would work. I had given up. One of my classmates looked at my dilemma and said, "Oh, and you were SO close to finishing!" Why yes, yes I was. At that point, I walked back to my workstation ready to put the ring back in my supply box. My instructor walked up to me with a tool in her hand. It was exactly what I needed to complete the ring. However, I couldn't push the thick metal tab - I wasn't strong enough. She told me to get a small hammer and gently tap, tap, tap on the tab. It worked! I blurted out, "Rachel, you're a GENIUS!" She laughed...my classmates laughed...I could have hugged her! (She's also one of my biggest metalsmithing cheerleaders.)

So, now you know why I've decided to name this beautiful ring "Rachel" - it's only right.

Looking forward...

 ~ Carole

A Bit of the Past Enhances the Present

I will confess - I am very sentimental!  My grandmother left me several items that mean a great deal to me, and my parents have given me things that they want me to have because they know I really like them.  I have saved things my children made during their school years and beyond, and I've also saved various items my grandchildren have very lovingly made with me in mind!  Of course, my closets can get a little "full", so I have to be careful I save only the "best of the best."  I also have difficulty changing out the "old" pictures in my frames to replace with new ones - I just love looking back and reminiscing about "the good 'ol days."

When I was getting ready to set up my torch table, my brother stopped by for a visit.  I was telling him what I thought I needed to make my torch table work best for me.  He mentioned that he had a piece of marble that he had found under the house that had served as our family camp for many years.  He believed that our grandfather had put this piece of marble under there with an idea that he might use it some day.  Bill delivered it to me and said that I might want to have it cut to a good size since it was a bit uneven.  He's right, it's 38 inches long, and is 15 inches on one end and 13.5 inches on the other, with a very jagged edge.

You might have guessed that I cannot bring myself to make any cuts to it - it's so very unique just as it is, and I love that it belonged to my grandfather.  So, I will keep it in its original form - a piece of my heritage that might just help enhance my creative present and future!  Here's a picture of this beautiful green, black, and white marble that must be around 60 years old and makes me smile every time I sit down to use my torch!

One thing I know for sure - it's very, very heavy!  And when I laid it down on my table, I must have cleaned off 60 years of dirt to get to the real beauty of this great piece of marble. 

I am grateful to have this beautiful piece of my past as part of my future.

C J

C J is "Back to School"

Fall means "Back to School."  On several occasions, I made an attempt (albeit it, half-hearted) to go back to school to get that degree I was too busy to earn all of those years ago "BK" (before kids).  I started.  I stopped.  Started.  Stopped.  I guess you can say I couldn't figure out what I wanted to be when I grew up.  Oh, don't get me wrong, I have done plenty of things that have kept me busy over the past four and a half decades!  But that's another post for another day.

Last winter, I decided to take a 12-week course in metalsmithing.  Okay, so I finally found my true love for what school should really look and feel like for me.  If I were to spell this kind of "school" it would be spelled F-U-N!  I L-O-V-E it!  It has opened up a whole new world for me.

Over the past several months, I have begun adding metalsmithing tools and equipment to my workspace.  I've tried hard to turn this space into an organized studio where I can create beautiful jewelry.  It's been challenging for me to figure out how to make a sturdy workbench for my torch, rolling mill, and tumbler.  At this point, I might need to hire someone to help me get to where I want it to be, but for now, it's a place I love to go to get lost in my creative world.

It has taken a lot of courage for me to venture into using a torch to solder metal.  I used to shake all over during my classes whenever I used the torch - it scared me so I jumped whenever I turned it on.  When I first got my own torch, it took days (maybe weeks) to go get the tank to hook it all up.  Then, whenever I wanted to turn it on, I broke out into a cold sweat and had heart palpitations so bad I thought I would pass out.  This "schooling" has taught me so many things:  courage to use the scarey equipment, courage to be okay with making a mistake with silver, and courage to try new things.  I'm beginning to collect a "Silver Bucket of Mistakes", but what "metalsmither" doesn't have this type of collection?  Although it has taken a lot of self-talk, I find that it's perfectly okay for me to make a mistake.  Whether my project turns out great or whether it is added to the bucket collection, I'm learning and gaining skills I never had before.  Now isn't that what school is all about?

So, my next 12 weeks of classes begin on September 24th.  I've got a list of projects a mile long and can't wait to start learning new techniques.  I'm very excited.  I just can't decide what I want to tackle first.  Good thing I have a couple of weeks to figure it all out.

Happy Fall,
C J

A Snow Day = Pajama Work Day

When I woke up to snow this morning (the last day of Winter), and discovered all area schools were cancelled as well as my metalsmithing class, I decided to declare a Pajama Work Day for myself.  It's one of the perks of being your own boss.  It's also something I learned about from my youngest grandgirl, who loved it when she had pajama day at preschool a couple of weeks ago.

I spent time researching and working on a few designs for my new line of Newborn Photography Photo Props.  Needless to say, I was in creative heaven.  And when you can't find a pattern on line, you make your own, don't you? Well, that's what works for me, so I assume I'm not alone.

Here are a few of the things I worked on today...

 Butterfly Barefoot Sandals which I cannot wait to see on some sweet baby's feet!

 Flower Barefoot Sandals with ribbon ties are made with Vintage Antique Mohair yarn.

The Denim Mist Newborn Boy Visor Cap is so cute, but it really needs a wooden button on the side...which I will add once it stops snowing and I can get to the store without risk of running off the road.

Besides creating these pieces, I've also been working on a photo prop baby hammock/basket liner.  As soon as it's done, I will post a picture.  June Lamson Photography will be photographing some of my props - I just can't wait for some professional pictures, since a photographer I am NOT!  By the way, go ahead and "Like" her Facebook page - June Lamson Photography - you'll love seeing her work even if you don't live in Florida.

More later...I promise!
Carole  

A Sneak Peak at Another Collection

When I was deciding on a name for my jewelry business and trying to create my logo, I was advised by a then student at Watson College of Art in Nashville, (my favorite Guy) to keep the name non-specific to jewelry so I would have room to add different "collections" to my business.  At the time, I waffled on that idea because I couldn't think of anything else I would want to do.  But, I listened, and now I am very grateful that I did so.

It was my sister, June, who inspired me to try my hand at jewelry......and it sure came in handy when, two years ago, I stopped getting into my car at 7:30 every morning to begin my day as a Manager of Direct Marketing.  I'll stop here to admit that I have not yet declared official retirement......in my own mind, I'm not old enough!

Recently, I was sitting listening to Beth Moore present a weekly Bible study from the Book of James.  She said something that hit me......hard.  Since my memory can no longer recall verbatim, the gist of her message was...sometimes our closets indicate we might be "hoarders."  I tried to dismiss the conviction, until the very next day when I went to one of my many, very full closets to find some fabric with texture for a metalsmithing project.  There I spotted four baby afghans that I had made but never gave away.  Now I'll stop again to say...I did not make these afghans for myself!  When I made them, there were a lot of young ladies in my life having babies!

The day after I had discovered the baby afghans in the much too full closet, I was working through that day's study.  My sister was heavy on my heart, so I decided I should call her.  While talking, I asked about her new venture......a photography business.  And let me just say, she's got a great eye for this type of thing!  She's creative and I love her work!  The thought came to me that maybe she could use the blankets for newborn photo shoots.  I sent her some pictures...she welcomed the idea...and then began the brainstorming for another collection - Newborn Photography Props!  (Knitted and crocheted blankets, cocoons with caps, hats with flowers, headbands, tutus of every color with a matching tutu bear, word bracelets for wrists or ankles......Oh my, it's endless.)

So......in the very near future, I will be introducing Newborn Photography Prop Sets and will add them to my Etsy page.  June Lamson Photography is my very first customer.  Two boxes were shipped to Port St Lucie, Florida on Friday and should arrive by the end of this week.  I just can't wait to see her beautiful work coupled with my work...it all seems like a match made in Heaven!

Let me just share one of her newborn photos with you so you can see what I'm talking about......(and this one makes me smile!)

And here is a picture of one of those four original baby afghans in the box soon to be photographed by June Lamson Photography...

There's so much more that I have yet to photograph......"a woman's work is never done!"  So, if you are a photographer, or you know someone who is......please contact me for some very original newborn photography props!

Carole

I Get By With A Little Help From My Friend

Yes, it's been almost nine months since my last blog entry, and as I attempted to spruce up my blog design, I panicked when I couldn't remember how to navigate templates, backgrounds, fonts, centering, photos and links, so I decided to put in a call for a helping hand.

What does one do when they are desperate for help?  Yes, you guessed it...I sent out an SOS to my friend, Tracy T.  Tracy helped me set up my blog two years ago...and since she blogs DAILY, I figured she could give me a remedial training session to get me going again!  (I can only aspire to be the Blog Queen like my friend!) She even made her blog for today about our time together this afternoon. Check out Mainely Tracy's entry...you'll get to see me at work! The picture might have been taken right after we bravely changed some HTML code.  Wow, that was a little stressful!

Not only do I now have a new look to my blog, I also have the "Blogsy" app for my iPad so I can compose a new blog from that as well.  (No excuses, huh?) Maybe I'll be brave enough to do it from there soon.

I will admit that there is a motivation for refreshing my page.  I am getting ready to launch a new "Collection" to C J Collection...we're not just jewelry anymore.  In my next blog post, I will talk about my new line...but you might already have picked up on it if you read my new blog description in the Blog Header.  I am always excited for opportunities that take me deeper into my "creative world"...I sometimes get lost, very lost (just ask my hubby)...and if I'm honest, I don't want to be found.

All-in-all, I feel very accomplished today.  Learning new technology stuff is always a stretch for me, and Tracy is so patient!  Tons of love and thanks to Tracy for getting me back on track! 

And as Pete the Cat says, "It's all good!"

Carole

Silence Is Not Always Golden!

What have I been doing these past six months?  Good question!  For some reason, I manage to keep very busy...but not always doing the things I love the most!  There's no way I can summarize these last months in one post, so I'll give it to you in bits and pieces.  Here's the first of several "bits"...

I spent a total of four short weeks (from January into February) taking care of grand-baby #8 while her babysitter recuperated from surgery. While Viv is technically past the baby stage (she's 2), she is the baby of all of my grandchildren. It definitely was a different routine for me (and for Viv), but I was so glad I was available to have this quality time with her! We had a blast!

In March, I attended a bead show in Pompano Beach, FL.  After I experienced my first show a few years ago, I learned that my brain goes into overload upon entering a convention center full of beads of all colors, sizes and shapes...along with so many other things that serve to fill my head with such an abundance of creative ideas!  Now, before I go to a show, I sit down and make a "Supply List" and vow to stick to the list! (Yeah, right...but I have good intentions!)

At the top of the paper is a note to myself to be on the lookout for a new technique or idea that will appeal to those of you who love jewelry as much as I do! And of course, this show did not disappoint...I found a new design using rolo chain and leather cord.  This cuff style bracelet is adjustable, very comfortable, and is one that can be done in just about any color chain and leather.











The one on the left is made with two strands of silver plated rolo chain and silver pearlescent leather cord.  The one on the right is made with three strands of silver plated rolo chain and turquoise leather cord. I've made them with antique silver, copper, brass and goldtone chain...pink, copper, champagne, black, brown, green, and turquoise leather.  Such endless possibilities!

After mastering the cuff style, I went on to make a double wrap bracelet with burgundy leather cord and four sizes of platinum Swarovski pearls...and, as you can see, it was much more of a challenge...but beautiful for sure!

I've done one other style of leather and chain in a triple wrap style...one in goldtone chain and gold pearlescent leather and the other one in silver plated chain and black leather.  I have not yet photographed the silver and black, but here's a picture of the triple wrap bracelet done in the gold-on-gold combination.  The clasp is a loop on one end and a base metal button on the other end.

Of course, I have plenty of exciting designs to talk about, but I'll save them for the next writing or two. I haven't really been silent...I've been in my loft bending and hammering wire, and dapping!  Sometimes my hubby thinks it sounds like Santa's workshop! 

"Silence is golden.  Duct tape is silver."

Carole

Cheers to a New Year!

"Cheers to a New Year and another chance to get it right." ~ Oprah

Most of us have done our share of "reflecting" over the last several days...and I join the throngs of people who have resolved not to make a New Year's resolution.  I've listened to people in the media talk about how many people fail to keep their resolutions.  In fact, they say most resolutions are forgotten by June...and a lot disappear within several weeks! (Just check out the parking lot of your local gym now versus the middle to end of the year...that says it all!)

Needless to say, I'm not one to make resolutions because I'm the type of person who, when faced with a need for change, wants to do it then...not wait for a new year to begin on January 1st.  If I need to change my diet, a habit, an attitude, or find the need to exercise...why wait?  There's just no time like the present!

However, I do like to reflect on the previous year and decide what and where I want to go in the next year.  It gives me an opportunity to recognize my achievements and failures, and make sure I am continuing to look for new opportunities to grow and not "settling" or becoming stagnant.

As I balanced the books for C J Collection for 2011 (inventory and sales), I reflected...a lot!  I recalled every piece created, and every piece sold!  (I just love spreadsheets!)  I analyzed the data and tried to guess what 2012 might bring.  I was stumped...not because I don't have some thoughts and dreams for my business.  I was amazed at what 2011 brought my way...some good, some not-so-good...but through it all, I reflected on the blessings that were showered on me.  The year was bittersweet...the bitter was my early retirement...the sweet was the overwhelming response to my designs and creations...and the time I now have to serve my family whenever there is a need!

I do want to "get it right" in 2012, and with a lot of prayer, I hope to smile really big as I reflect again a year from now!  Bring it, 2012...I'm ready...I think!

Happy New Year to all of my family and friends!
Carole 

It's the Heart of the Family that Matters!

I'm sorry to say...I've had writer's block over the past several months.  On the other hand, I am happy to report, it's all due to the fact that I've been really busy going to craft shows and filling orders!

I think I could write a book entitled "A Beginner's Guide to Craft Shows."  I learned a great deal from this experience, and I am looking forward to what I can do next year!  My work was received well by the people who stopped by my booth...but I have to admit, I cringed when some of them tried to barter the price (flea-market-style).  I actually find that pricing a piece is harder than designing and making it...and to be honest, it's a fight to be paid the full amount of what a piece is really worth.  So, when someone looks at the price tag and they either do an "eye-roll" as they set it back in place...or try to barter with me, I have to quickly do some self-talk so I don't start emitting steam from my ears.  (I think this could be a whole blog topic in itself.)

With all of my 21 years in the world of customer service, I knew I had to listen to the customers and reach out in a way that would be different than all of the many talented jewelers out there.  While I didn't "make it rich" at the five craft shows I attended, I am "rich" by the experience.  I watched what people were drawn to, what they tried on, and what they said they were looking for in a piece of jewelry.

Out of my observations (and plenty of prayer), came my hammered silver Heart of the Family birthstone pendant.  People like custom-made...they love their family...they love to feel special...and this pendant hits all of those characteristics to qualify for "just the perfect gift." 

The heart is sculpted with 16 gauge sterling silver wire, the birthstones are 4mm bicone Swarovski crystals, and comes on an 18 inch sterling silver chain with a SS shepherd's hook clasp.  The heart is prayerfully hammered by me, giving it a lot of character.

At first I was frustrated with how I could possibly get the Heart of the Family pendant listed on my Etsy page...until I figured out that I could list them individually by the number of birthstones that make up individual families.  It works great...and now that I have one on its way to Alaska, I'm sure you can tell just how excited I am!

Family...something that means the world to me.  When I look at this heart with the birthstones, it gives me a quick picture of each family.  Some are extremely colorful...and each one is definitely unique.

Family...

          

          a. A fundamental social group in society typically consisting of one or two parents and their children.

          b. Two or more people who share goals and values, have long-term commitments to one another, and reside usually in the same dwelling place.

 

I love the second definition of the word "family." Recently, I viewed pictures submitted in a Family Photo Contest sponsored by Better Homes and Garden (which I don't recommend). I can tell you what a family is not...it is not one lonely bird sitting on a snow-covered branch, or a Christmas tree with presents waiting to be opened, or a Christmas tree that was set ablaze in the backyard, or even one cute baby sitting on a bench.  It is all of (b.) and then some...long-term commitments to one another = unconditional love, and acceptance of our differences.

 

As we approach this Christmas season...a time of giving and loving...don't forget the importance of family!  Don't count the number of gifts under the tree...the gift of family is ALL you need...trust me, you are truly "rich!"

 

Merry Christmas to you and your family,

Carole

'Tis the Season for Craft Shows!

I've never been one to go out of my way to seek out craft shows...until now.  I didn't decide to seek them out for my own personal shopping pleasure.  But rather, it is my first Christmas shopping season for being a vendor at craft shows.  Since the end of October, I have rented a booth at three events and have two more to go.  I knew going into it that I would have a lot to learn...but this has been a rather wild and crazy learning experience!  I thought I would share some of my experiences with you...

• Don't go into one of these events with a "Flea Market" mentality...No, I will not "haggle" with you over my price.  I've got to cover expenses, not just for the booth space, but also for cost of goods, packaging, time, and not to mention, gas money!
• Yes, there are quite a number of jewelers out there, but each of us has our own creative genius behind our creations.  I just love and appreciate other artist's talent.
• A craft show is a place where you can pick up some very unique items from some very talented people...handcrafted...not "manufactured" stuff...all the while, supporting local businesses or artists.
• I don't know another place where you can go to a concession stand and get a BBQ pork sandwich for $2.00 and a soda for $1.00.  Or, buy a coffee and get a donut hole free!

Family always strikes a cord with people..."The Heart of the Family" pendant seems to also strike a cord.  This has to be my most favorite piece of all time.  I was frustrated with trying to figure out a way to list them on my Etsy page...until today.  I finally have thought of a way to make it happen and I will be listing them in the next couple of days, so be watching!  Here is a picture:

This is a sample of a mother's birthstone (in the center) and two birthstones at the bottom of the heart which represents the birthstones of each child.  Today I made one for a Grandmother of seven...three stones in the center and four stones at the bottom.  It was beautiful!

The other most popular item was the "Tutu Cute" bears.  It's really not about a bear wearing a tutu as much as it is about the necklace and bracelet set that comes on the bear.  Once I am done with the craft shows, I will also start listing the "My Bear and Me" jewelry line on my Etsy page.  They really are adorable...and all of the jewelry is different...no two necklace and bracelet sets are alike!  So, one-of-a-kind jewelry for that special little girl in your life for only $24.00.

And my final learning?  Wear comfortable shoes!  I love my Danskos...worth every penny!

I hope to see you at a craft show soon,
Carole

Time Flies When You're Having Fun?

Has it really been three months since I last posted on my blog?  Where has the time gone?  Summer is now just a memory...but great memories were made with family and friends.  My North Carolina daughter and her family came for an extended visit, my parents came up from Florida for a month, and my cousins came up from Philadelphia...cousins I haven't seen in many, many years.  It was awesome!

Of course, I designed and created jewelry whenever I had a quiet moment.  I will admit, there were times when I didn't have any inspiration whatsoever, so my jewelry tools sat on the work table feeling quite neglected.  I was actually ready to give it all up...feeling as though my jewelry was pretty lackluster at best.  Needless to say, I did a lot of soul-searching...asking myself questions like, "Who would ever want to buy this stuff?" and, "What do you really want to do when you grow up?" And then...out of the blue...there were some sales.

As I started to make my way back to my workstation, and my hands gripped the lonely pliers, I felt confident that I could continue on my creative journey again.  As I began to think about how to market my collection, I decided to search for some craft shows for the Fall.  While this is a real stretch for me, I have been really determined that I need to take a deep breath, take a huge risk, and just go for it!

I am happy to report (I think) that I will be a vendor at three Maine Made Craft Shows - the weekend of October 29 and 30, November 12 and 13, and November 19 and 20.  Depending on how things go, there's a possibility I may do one more on Thanksgiving weekend.  In addition, I may also be having some home parties. Wow...and now another season will fly by!

You better believe my hands just can't keep up with my brain and all of the fabulous designs that I want to make before the end of the month!  I have been spending a lot of time with my jewelry tools lately!  If you're a friend of C J Collection on Facebook, you've seen some of my newest designs.  Here's one that I just finished yesterday, and I absolutely love it!

This Kumihimo necklace has so much bling, you need to wear sunglasses to look at it!  It's one of the most elegant necklaces so far.  Braided with black, silver, and charcoal AB crystals, it has a multi-rhinestone focal bead in the center. This necklace measures 18 inches with a 1.5 inch chain extender, and a sterling silver shepherd's hook clasp.

It's so good to be back at it again...doing what I really love to do.  Now to finish all of the items on my very long "To Do List!"

"The best thing about the future is that it comes one day at a time." ~ Abraham Lincoln
Carole

Dog Days of Summer

Living in the northeast, we long for warm weather somewhere around January. This year, the warmth arrived sometime in May, then it disappeared until July. Summer just can't come quick enough for us, but when it gets here, it flies by. There are so many things to do and we (I) start making lists because I don't want to miss out on any of it. As soon as I cross out one item on my list, there are two more to take its place. If you're a list-maker, you truly understand what I'm saying!

Needless to say, I've been really, really busy with my "To-Do list." (It's the first summer that I haven't worked at a job in 21 years, so this has been a treat for me.) I'm trying to juggle family and my jewelry business...both of which are things I love!  So far, July has had a wedding theme. I began the month by making a wedding cake...which is both fun and stressful all at the same time. I love creating and designing, and seeing the final product work its way from my head to reality. It amazes me every time. Here is a picture of the cake:

After finishing that project, I moved on to making wedding jewelry. Six of the eight attendants...got necklaces and earrings or bracelets and the two flower girls got bracelets. The necklaces and bracelets were created with 4mm plum Swarovski pearls and plum crystals...delicate and dainty. The Matron of Honor's jewelry was done in white rather than plum, just to make her a little bit different from the other attendants.

I probably got the biggest thrill from creating the bride's bracelet. As I began putting it together, I became more and more excited about the outcome. It has sparkle and shine like nobody's business! Anyone who knows me, knows how much I LOVE bling! This piece has more "bling" than you can imagine, and unfortunately, it doesn't show up in pictures. So the next item on my "list" is to figure out how to capture "bling" in a photo...which may involve a new camera or some photography lessons, or both. Of course it didn't help that I dropped my camera in the lake...but that's another story for another day.  Here's a picture of the bracelet:

I wish I had room to post all of the wedding jewelry pictures. If you want to see more, you can become a fan of C J Collection on Facebook and peruse the photos that I posted there.

Now that I've crossed that project off my list, I am trying decide which item I want to tackle next. I'm somewhat sad that I don't have another wedding project...since I crave "bling"...guess I'll have to see what I can do to create some sparkle and shine during these Dog Days of Summer!

Enjoy every moment...summers are too short, and so is life!
Carole

No More Teachers, No More Books...

One of my childhood chants at the end of each school year was, "No more teachers, no more books, no more teacher's dirty looks." Like a great many kids, I had a strong dislike for school. It wasn't until many years later that I had a change of heart. I just loved this chant...mainly because it meant spending the entire summer vacation up to our camp on Sebago Lake. I have sweet, fond, and strong memories of my summers there and was probably the only member of my family who loved it the way I did.

When my twins were young...probably as far back as when they were five or six, they played school every afternoon after they got home from school. By the time their little sister was able to walk and sit at a make-shift desk, they were excited that they had a "student" they could teach! I remember the days when I would be getting dinner ready, listening to them play school...no TV...just good clean fun teaching their student, who might not have always been cooperative, but that's another topic for another blog. ;o)

As time passed, their "playing school" turned into a real calling. Donna graduated from UNCW with her teaching degree in elementary and special education. Today she is a middle school special education teacher. Debra is working on completing her degree so she can focus on the social work side of education. She has been very active in assisting in her children's classrooms and directing children's ministry for several years. Yes, I am a very proud Momma.

So, this gives you a little more insight as to why I have changed my childhood chant into a grown-up cheer for our teachers! Now, I know my children didn't always have good experiences with all of their teachers, and we had some battles throughout the years. But the majority of their teachers had a heart for kids, academics, and growth on both an intellectual and social level.

Last week, I decided to give two of my grandgirl's teachers a custom-made bracelet from the C J Collection as a thank-you gift for their hard work. Since I don't like to give random gifts, I quizzed the girls about their teachers...what colors do they like, what do they wear for jewelry, and so forth. It helps give me inspiration so it's not just another gift that they throw in a drawer somewhere. (I've got some inside scoop as to what teachers like for gifts and what they don't like!) So, after we talked about their teachers, here's what I came up with:

This fifth grade teacher likes neutral colors and loves jewelry...freshwater pearls and illusion crystals with silver shepherd's hook clasp and chain to make it adjustable.

This third grade teacher loves purple...made with light purple quartz, variegated square glass beads, and darker purple illusion crystals, with silver shepherd's hook clasp and chain to make it adjustable.

It might be time for me to come up with a new chant I can teach my grandkids...maybe it will be as "catchy" as the old one. Any ideas? Teachers rule, students drool...oh wait...I think I'm confused with another "chant."

Okay, so I'm off to create something more original!
Carole

"Grandmothers are just antique little girls."

Little did I know over fourteen years ago that I would love, love being a grandmother. Since I was feeling too young to be called the "G" word, we decided my grandkids would call me "Mimi." Yes, I am one of those people who are quite sensitive about the "number." And no, I will not be getting over it anytime soon!

Over the past few months I have been able to spend more time with my grandchildren. What a treat! Most of the time, they make me feel young. They are growing up right before my eyes, and that's when I feel old!  In a few days, my fourteen year old grandgirl will be graduating from eighth grade...it just doesn't seem possible! Another granddaughter and grandson are going from elementary school into middle school. Wow! Where has the time gone?

This week, I created a necklace, earrings, and bracelet set for Gabby's eighth grade graduation. She will be wearing a pink and black semi-formal dress and will be looking oh so grown up! The necklace is made with light pink Swarovski pearls and silver crystals, and multi-faceted clouded pink crystals that add just enough sparkle and bling. Here is a picture...

While I am excited to see her all "dolled up", I don't know if I can make it through this graduation with emotions in tact. Gabby is a great kid...sensitive, creative, loving, and beautiful, and I've begged her to stay a little tyke. (I've actually asked all of my grandkids to stay small, but they aren't listening.) G has told me a couple of times that adults aren't invited to the dance that's going to be held after the graduation ceremony. Thinking her comment was funny, I told her that I already had my dress...I am chaperoning it. She didn't laugh...which made it even funnier! I'm not actually going to be a chaperone, but I'm kicking myself for not calling the school to volunteer. No problem, I have more grandkids coming along and then there's always G's junior and senior proms! ;o) More than likely, she won't be amused by this thought, but I do like to tease her a little bit now and then. Adore you, Miss G!

Happy 8th Grade Graduation to G! I am so proud of you...I can't believe this Mimi will have a grandgirl in high school. I know you're trying to make me feel old...but I'm fighting the feeling...hard!

"A grandmother is a mother who has a second chance."

Carole

Lost At Sea

For the past week we have enjoyed some awesome Florida weather, and some quality time with my parents.  Hubby and I took one of our grandgirls with us for this visit and it definitely was one of the best vacations I've had in a few years.  I didn't keep a calendar...make a "to-do list"...nor did I bring a work laptop with me and log in remotely to the office.  Of course, I did bring some jewelry-making supplies with me, but that's just not "work", if you know what I mean.  Yes, I made some jewelry pieces, but I actually laid on a float in the pool and read two and a half books on my Kindle.  And I have a great tan!

Since yesterday was our last full day in Paradise, we decided to take a trip to Bathtub Beach to enjoy the ocean and collect some shells.  It was a hazy day, so the sun was not scorching us.  I walked along the sandy edge and the waves were pretty strong compared to other trips to that beach.  While I was looking for shells, I noticed that my toe ring felt somewhat loose and I had to keep adjusting it.  This was my very first sterling toe ring I had made earlier this month...which I posted about in my last blog entitled "Happy Feet." 

I stopped shell-hunting and decided that I might want to join my hubby and granddaughter, Lucy.  They were swimming and having a great time trying to body surf on the bigger waves.  It looked like so much fun...but something that I need to convince myself to do since I think I might be a bit too old for this type of activity. As I stood in ankle-deep water with waves coming in and going out at a rapid pace, I noticed my toe ring had moved to the top of my toe.  I bent down to take it off and had my fingers on it at the same moment a wave hit me, and I lost my balance.  You guessed it...I didn't actually have a good enough hold and it slipped right into the ocean.  It was gone...it all happened so fast.

As I stood there trying not to be upset, Lucy came over to me.  I asked her if she would use her goggles to see if she could find it.  She was more than happy to help recover my lost toe ring.  Little did I know right before that happened, my hubby had a similar experience with his college ring that he has worn for the past 40 years.  He's lost so much weight, his ring slips off easily. While he was swimming in the ocean, it fell off his finger. He quickly used Lucy's goggles to find it again, which truly amazes me!  How much more meaningful was his college ring compared to my first-ever sterling silver hammered toe ring? I was SO happy for him!

Lucy said, "Don't worry, Mimi, we can get you another toe ring."  When I told her that I had made it, she said she thought I could make another one.  So I sat on my towel on the beach and tried to design a new toe ring in my mind that I would like better.  I was sad but only for a brief moment...there are so many things in life that aren't replaceable and I just couldn't allow myself to dwell on something as simple as a lost toe ring. We even joked about the fish that would come and swallow it up, and then the fisherman who will catch and clean the fish only to discover a nice piece of silver in its belly!

Of course when I went back to my parent's house, I took out my silver wire and started bending and hammering.  It came out different than my mind had designed, but I just never know how any of my pieces will actually look until it's all done.  I put it on and showed Lucy.  She said, "Oh Mimi, that one is much better than your other one."  I just love that girl's heart!

Here is a picture of my new "Tootsie" ring:

Yes, one ring was "lost at sea", while the other, much more important and sentimental ring was "recovered" from the bottom of the ocean.  I still have "Happy Feet" and a very happy hubby!

Moving forward and enjoying the important things in life!
Carole

Happy Feet!

Thank goodness it's sandal season...love, love my sandals! Whenever I uncover my sore feet from the dreaded winter shoes and boots, my feet cry for some pampering. While I've been wearing sandals for a few days now, I got a really good view of my feet when I sat in the dentist's chair this morning getting my teeth cleaned.  For the record, that is my least favorite thing (dental chairs) in the whole world!

Anyway, as I was reclining in said chair, I had time to study my sandals, feet, and toe rings. Love, love toe rings! I was not impressed with how my rings had fared the winter...dull and very old looking. I couldn't get too bothered by it since they didn't cost a lot and I felt I did get my money's worth.  I was trying to picture what kind of rings I wanted to replace them with and then I instantly had the idea that I could make myself new rings!  So rather than let my blood pressure sky-rocket as it typically does whenever I go to the dentist, I sat there trying to design new toe rings!  What better way to pass that kind of time?

Before I knew it, forty-five minutes had passed and my dentist came in to check my teeth with the hygienist. I laughed when his first question to me was, "Now I know I'm not really current on fashion and nail polish etiquette, but is it okay to have one color polish on your fingers and another color on your toes?" The hygienist quickly pointed out that the nail polish on my fingers matched my necklace, but my dentist couldn't get past the fact that my pink toe polish didn't match my aqua finger nail polish. What struck me funny about his question was that after I had painted my nails aqua yesterday, my hubby, who barely ever says anything about those sorts of things, asked me if I had ever worn that color before. When I said, "No, I don't think I have," he then said, "I mean, you have never, ever worn that color in all of the years I've known you." My interpretation? He hates the color! ;o)

You might have already suspected that when I came home from my dentist appointment, I went up to my studio and began working on toe rings!  Yes, I have pictures of the "before" and "after"...but not of my feet...that would be an awful picture to post!

If you look closely, the ring on the left is split...it broke when I took it off.  I guess I knew it was time to let go of the old...which is a current and on-going theme in my life right now!

These "Tootsie" rings are made with 16 gauge hammered sterling silver wire.  (The one on the right is softly hammered and the one on the left is boldly hammered.)  I did make a third ring, but it ended up as a pinky ring...it has an aqua bead wired to it that matches my aqua nail polish! ;o)

To refer to my last blog post, inspiration can even come while sitting in the dental chair.  I wonder if they will look at me funny when I go to my November cleaning appointment wearing sandals. 

I think my feet are very, very happy...
Carole

Inspiration Comes in Many Different Forms

Have you ever been aware of the things that inspire you?  Since I've been designing jewelry, my inspiration has come in many different forms.  Most of the time, it's something that I've stumbled across.  For example, while helping one of my daughters clean out her basement recently (fulfilling my "urge to purge"), I found a piece of costume jewelry that gave me a great idea about a new design using freshwater pearls.  Sunday I sat in church with my friend who wore turquoise and coral...it was stunning!  So now I'm trying to think of what I can design using that color combination.

Last year, I made a great necklace for my daughter for her birthday (with my sister's help).  It has to be one of my favorites and, I have to say, it was really tough parting with it.  The other day Deb said, "Mom, every time I wear that necklace, it makes my heart happy."  As she studied it further, she was inspired to decorate her bedroom with those colors and wants to hang a framed picture of the necklace to document her inspiration.  She even sent me a link to a comforter set she found online that will work perfectly with her "Butterfly Hugs necklace bedroom." Let's just hope her hubby won't mind the new theme.  <insert smiley face here>

Here's the picture that will be framed:

I really can't wait to see how she ties this all together...but with her talent for decorating, I'm sure it will look awesome!

While it wasn't planned, it's been rather nice having the time to bring some of my inspirations to life in the form of jewelry.  If you have an idea for a special piece of jewelry to go with that special outfit, please let me know and I will be more than happy to work with you.

Let me just put in a plug for Mother's Day - it's right around the corner, and handcrafted jewelry makes a great gift!

Inspiring minds really want to grow!

Carole

Amazing Grace! How Sweet!

A couple of weeks ago, my friend Lynne asked if I would donate a piece of jewelry to a charity event for Kid's First, an organization in which she and her husband are involved.  I jumped at the opportunity for several reasons, and for those of you who know a little bit about my life's journey, I'm sure you understand why.  For the benefit of my new friends, let me tell you that one of my daughters has gone through the trauma of divorce.  Enough said?

As I was contemplating which item to donate to the Fundraising Gala, I found myself in a dilemma.  There was something special about each piece, but I wasn't sure if the "special-ness" would be appreciated by those who were going to be bidding on it.  Again, for those who know me well, I am very critical of my work and I over-think things a lot!  (Just ask my girls...it's a point of frustration for them, I'm sure!)  But to my defense, I didn't want to donate just anything without first thinking about the audience and the occasion.  It's just part of the drill for me...so I prayed for wisdom.

This particular necklace had not yet been named.  Of course it needed a name, so as I photographed and measured it, I sat quietly looking at it.  Thinking about "Kid's First"...and the mission behind this organization, I realized that going through these life events takes a whole lot of GRACE!  Yes, I have watched my daughter show grace when I just wanted to lash out.  Yes, there's been lots of tears, but  grace abounds for the kid's sake!

Here's a picture of sweet "Grace" that will be an item at the Gala.  It's a black and red Kumihimo necklace with matching earrings.  (pronounced koo-mee-hee-mo)   Kumihimo is the art of braiding eight strands of beads together and dropping one bead at a time as the cords are interlaced.

I'm not going to apologize for the seriousness of this post...it's life, we all go through "stuff" and folks, I just want to keep it real.  Let's face it...we need lots and lots of grace...it makes the burden lighter.  And there are times when I need people to show me some grace, too!

"God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, courage to change the things which should be changed and the wisdom to distinguish the one from the other." ~R. Neibuhr

I am so excited to see what this "Grace" can do...and I hope she gently and sweetly hugs the neck of the person who is the highest bidder!  

Go With Grace!
Carole
 

More Than Just Tax Day For Me!

For most of you reading this blog post, today is the day when taxes are due to be filed.  And in our case, checks are required to accompany the tax filing form!  As important as that may be, it's not what April 15th means to me.

Thirty-three years ago today, I gave birth to a beautiful blonde baby girl!  Even though she came into this world in a breach position, she was a blessing beyond words.  You see, I had difficulties with my pregnancies, so we were very happy she was born healthy and on her due date!

The night before she made her appearance, my hubby told her that it would be best for our schedules if she would come out on Saturday, April 15th.  (Yes, he did talk to her while she was bumping my belly with her feet and fists.) It was a long holiday weekend for him and her older twin sisters had school vacation, so they could go stay with their grandparents while we were in the hospital.  We were both shocked when she listened and was obedient! (something she found very challenging later on in life ;o)

Of course, this was all before ultra sounds, so we had no idea the gender of our baby.  My dad, who loved to write music, wrote a lullaby before she was born and it was for a baby girl.  Somehow, he knew. But the Raggedy Ann and Andy nursery theme would seem to work for either one, so we were ready to rock and roll with a new baby...boy or girl!

Wow...thirty-three years has flown, but I just marvel at the journey and what a wonderful woman Mandy Lynn has become.  As I watch her make her family her priority, my heart is happy.

I sat down the other day and made her a birthday necklace and earrings set.  It was similar to one I had made last month that she had tried to slip it on and hope that I would let her wear it home.  Nice try, but I haven't lost all of my senses yet.  Here is a picture of her necklace...

Mandy sent me a message last night saying that she received a compliment on her necklace while dining out with her family down in Florida. It's awesome when complete strangers compliment your jewelry!  This piece is really stunning in person...and shouts "SUMMER" with the aqua and white combination.  If you check out my Etsy shop, you'll find the original version available to order.  Also, if you would like some earrings to match, I would be happy to add those for only $10 more.

Happy April 15th to you, but a big, loving Happy Birthday to my dear daughter!

Cheers to you today!
Carole

"Breaker, Breaker, 1-9...Do You Copy?"

Last week I posted about having had a day with two "trips down Memory Lane."  My first was about a trip to the Southwest.  My second trip was about the days of CB Radios...do you remember those? Like a GPS is today, we knew a good many people whose vehicles were equipped with a squawky radio.  Many road trips were spent listening to other people talking to each other and our trucker friends giving all listeners a head's up on all "Bears taking pictures" (police with radar) sitting in "hiding" just waiting to pull over the drivers who were in a hurry to get somewhere!  Ahhh...and we thought that was high tech and fancy lingo!

You may be wondering why this trip came into my mind while making jewelry.  Very good question.  It actually came to me while I was naming one of my latest necklaces.  Back in the day, those of us who had the luxury of owning a CB (citizen band) radio, also had a "handle"...a radio alias that our friends could use to "call" us if we were tuned into the same channel.  My "handle" was Blonde Copper...which was quite creative since I was blonde and drove a copper-colored station wagon!

As I was working on this beautiful copper necklace and thinking about its potential name, "Blonde Copper" came to mind in an instant.  It seemed perfect!  Again combining copper and pewter, this wrap necklace is contrasted with black rondelle-shaped crystals and oval black onyx.  Of course, what's a blog post without pictures?

 
It's fun...it's trendy...and it goes with so many different color combinations.  You will find more details after I list it on Etsy.

Oh, and one more point of trivia...my hubby's handle was "Dead Eye." I have to say, we made a great CB couple!  (And I bet you can figure out how he got his name.)

10-4 Good Buddy...it's Over and Out.

Catch ya on the flip flop...
Carole